Handling Doubts In a Relationship

A relationship is meeting of two hearts

Of different backgrounds and cults

Who can't understand each other so well

One likes something, other may hate

One reaches early, the other may be late

One thinks one way, the other differently

One may be perfect,

The other may fail to understand perfectly

Hence, doubts are possible

Until they know each other so well

And trust is enough, for doubts to quell

Until mutual trust is established

Both need care to be transparent

Not to create situations doubted

By not allowing any third in between

With spells and mists well guarded

Days are bright, nights are dark

All wrongs go in darkness of night

Making doubts to raise their head

If someone unjustly operates at night

Staying away from home without right

Saying Goodnight, still awake at night

Women being for hours at public place

Or closeted with men at midnight

Are often causes of parting away

Whatever be their mutual sway

Better such situations are averted

Or made transparent for being related

Relationship needs investment of time

For cultivation, as requirement prime

Thinking advance for each other's feel

Not to let doubts cover the trust as peel

Any doubt in one's mind once seeded

Earliest uproot by the other is needed

Justifying with being self-righteous

Without caring about what other tills

That is how the relationship, one kills

Assuaging hurt feelings of someone

Through the loveliest word 'sorry'

For a person winning a relationship

Is not a defeat but a sure victory

It is the relationship both must wish

If one's contribution is on diminish

The other must enhance their share

To succeed the relationship as rare

In a relationship, a person is the victor

Contribution to connection having bigger

Keys to Trust in Love

Love is never blind, but lust is always so

Love stands with respect, but lust can bow

Love is precisely round about

Has no tolerance to doubt

If you doubt me

Elimination is my duty

With transparency, simplicity n integrity

In love, there is no other way

To be happy and gay!

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Every time, one's behavior

Is cunning, indecisive or mysterious

Provides power to a flicker of doubt

It is where love fails

Whatever loud 'I love you' be the shout

For love bears no doubtful trace

Whatever the twosome may face

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Simple test of simplicity

Is to say promptly that comes to mind

Thinking in conversing is artificial grind

Sowing seeds of doubt for not natural

It is common to all, not cultural

Simplicity adjoins smile

Takes it along with virile

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Integrity means loving the only one

Being indecisive works as poison

With no alternative and option

Going beyond is all out corruption

Doubt in mind leads to need of others

Better not to love but go flying on feathers

For better options never to be found

Getting tired, come to the ground

In the search, mind gets corrupt

Nature indecisive, conduct abrupt

Beloved doesn't need a search light

But call of the heart on facing the right

They appear to be the best

Provided they build-up mutual trust

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Transparency is openness of conduct

Nothing secret, everything put in the duct

Like a clear mirror that suffices

Without any bias or prejudices

No need of creating a good impression

But being real in expression

Let the other gather the real impression

In a relationship it's not important

What you are or what you represent

But how you are perceived by the other

And how your words are without bother

A relationship stands on how much each bends

For the other's pain and pleasure

Others views how much one treasure

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Another important key to love

Communication thro' eyes, words and smiles

Earlier the message is delivered

Without waiting the other get bothered

Better it is for the love

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Sense of humor twosome display

To bring each other with smiles on play

Stern looks and notes are always

Poisons to love and its ways

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For loving, shouting 'I love you' is not the way

There is nothing you need to say

Just feel it and let the other feel so

From expressions whatever may go

In between the two intending love

Lesson taught by couple of dove

They shout only to find beloved

Then silence prevail beaks rubbed

Keep sitting for hours without a say

Just occasional touches in sweet way

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