Handling Doubts In a Relationship

A relationship is meeting of two hearts

Of different backgrounds and cults

Who can't understand each other so well

One likes something, other may hate

One reaches early, the other may be late

One thinks one way, the other differently

One may be perfect,

The other may fail to understand perfectly

Hence, doubts are possible

Until they know each other so well

And trust is enough, for doubts to quell

Until mutual trust is established

Both need care to be transparent

Not to create situations doubted

By not allowing any third in between

With spells and mists well guarded

Days are bright, nights are dark

All wrongs go in darkness of night

Making doubts to raise their head

If someone unjustly operates at night

Staying away from home without right

Saying Goodnight, still awake at night

Women being for hours at public place

Or closeted with men at midnight

Are often causes of parting away

Whatever be their mutual sway

Better such situations are averted

Or made transparent for being related

Relationship needs investment of time

For cultivation, as requirement prime

Thinking advance for each other's feel

Not to let doubts cover the trust as peel

Any doubt in one's mind once seeded

Earliest uproot by the other is needed

Justifying with being self-righteous

Without caring about what other tills

That is how the relationship, one kills

Assuaging hurt feelings of someone

Through the loveliest word 'sorry'

For a person winning a relationship

Is not a defeat but a sure victory

It is the relationship both must wish

If one's contribution is on diminish

The other must enhance their share

To succeed the relationship as rare

In a relationship, a person is the victor

Contribution to connection having bigger

For Success of Relationship Online

 Relationships online is a new development

Not much study has been done in this flick

Hence, persons involved are misguided lot

Think these work like contact relationship

Still, online relationships are not impossible

Provided both try make relation successful

By caring for and respecting feelings of other

Think not of the self but of the other partner

In relationships online, only words are bridge

Between friends located apart yet are furious

Hence persons with low command on words

Or low care for own promises trouble serious

No body language, no touches, no smiles exist

To make communication of feelings complete

Feelings exchanged are partial, not in unison

Not being felt fully by both partners as union

Differences in cultures and climates also exist

Make them to think differently, cold and heat

Winter at one place makes a person to desire

Summer at other, make the other to avoid fire

Hence, they lack sync of feelings and appeals

One feels attracted, the other repulsed feels

Differences in time make to behave different

Morning at one's place makes them energetic

Evening at the other causes behaviors erratic

Differences in currency values affect relating

Make earning power discouraging n elating

Things appear cheaper to one, pricy to other

One may feel superior, other being inferior

Different prosperity levels of nations of tour

Also make hopeful partners feel rich n poor  

Differing laws of nations add more difficulties

By not allowing marriage of hopeful parties

Key is sacrifice the self into the fire of love

For pleasures of the other without self-love

Take responsibility with 'sorry' for any lapse

Though the fault may not be own perhaps

And give credit to the other with 'thank you'

For something marvel in between the two

Be frank in requesting anything one desires

From the other with 'please' in loving fires  

Self-righteous n self-centered must be away

From online relationship, this not their way

I wish to See the Changed You

 Enough water has reached the oceans from peaks

Since we met and joined our seeks

Millions of words have flown out from our lips

Since we realized need and prospects of love

Between us to stop our lonely sips

We can't afford to be standing at the same place

Where we started from and had said 'I love you',

We need to express our love

In more positive ways of conduct and action

To prove the progress we have made

Toward our unity, forgetting faction

About our mutual trust without reaction

Your love gets eclipsed when I am on your way

Saying you are too busy to enjoy a ray

Of my love and feelings expressed in so blunt way

But show it again when I keep away

Hence I wish not to be in your way

To leave you free to have your choice

Do what you like to feel rejoice

Your rhetoric 'I love you' lost its sharp edge

Getting monotonous, appears like a hedge

It appears no more a loving voice

But you have shown no other way

To prove that your perception has changed

Your actions still not show finality of your choice

I wish to feel, find and experience the changed you

We need to show how much we moved

To move further to what stands proved

That the seed of love is transformed into a plant

With 'I love you' becoming something grand

Please show me what is changed in you

Your plans for further action

Your desires for satisfaction

Your wish for creation of a new unit

Canvas of future life you might have knit

Your imagination on brighter future

Dream of togetherness you nurture

Changes you may have in body and mind

Change in the ways after our mutual find

Fearful of non-fruition of a distant dream

I prefer to be away from the gleam.

Until you show me the change you dream

If You wish to Go

If you wish to go

For any reason you know

You go, get blind

Without caring for my sow

Seeds of love in your mind

But please don't tell me lies

To convince me

You get busy as time flies !

Not finding time to love

Being too busy to sit in peace

Are mere excuses for a strife

As there can be none

Having no time to love

It being an essential part and parcel of life

Please keep a chance alive

In future if we meet in some hive

We are able to say hello with smiles

Without shame of deceiving

Without grievances in piles

You have the right to choose

From my love eternal 
And offers from others

Like a preying goose !

It is an art of management

Not to say in words

But through change in facial expressions

I sensed a sudden change in you

Not a word on lips

Anger under great repression

I understand the reason

But assert my right to self-esteem

Would never have a compromise

Whatever be the temptation !

I am a World in myself

Not a part of the wretched World

You like it or not

My thought makes my word

And action based on that word

The World is so large

To provide us spaces exclusive

So why deceive you or me

Feel free, why excursive !

In a love affair

Right to choose is not open forever

It is today but sealed for future

So think today

Twice, thrice or times many

Before being a part of me

For making life a symphony !