Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Friday, April 29, 2016

For Success of Relationship Online


 Relationships online is a new development
Not much study has been done in this flick
Hence, persons involved are misguided lot
Think these work like contact relationship
Still, online relationships are not impossible
Provided both try make relation successful
By caring for and respecting feelings of other
Think not of the self but of the other partner

In relationships online, only words are bridge
Between friends located apart yet are furious
Hence persons with low command on words
Or low care for own promises trouble serious
No body language, no touches, no smiles exist
To make communication of feelings complete
Feelings exchanged are partial, not in unison
Not being felt fully by both partners as union

Differences in cultures and climates also exist
Make them to think differently, cold and heat
Winter at one place makes a person to desire
Summer at other, make the other to avoid fire
Hence, they lack sync of feelings and appeals
One feels attracted, the other repulsed feels
Differences in time make to behave different
Morning at one's place makes them energetic
Evening at the other causes behaviors erratic

Differences in currency values affect relating
Make earning power discouraging n elating
Things appear cheaper to one, pricy to other
One may feel superior, other being inferior
Different prosperity levels of nations of tour
Also make hopeful partners feel rich n poor  
Differing laws of nations add more difficulties
By not allowing marriage of hopeful parties

Key is sacrifice the self into the fire of love
For pleasures of the other without self-love
Take responsibility with 'sorry' for any lapse
Though the fault may not be own perhaps
And give credit to the other with 'thank you'
For something marvel in between the two
Be frank in requesting anything one desires
From the other with 'please' in loving fires  

Self-righteous n self-centered must be away
From online relationship, this not their way

Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Why I Go Wrong Always !



Things are not as I suppose
Things go not as I propose
I often go wrong in understanding
People, faces, words and acts
I was swayed by a person -
She said, this is not me but my profession
I was swayed by a face -
She said, it is not me but a mask
I was swayed by words -
She said, these are not mine but of poetess me
I was swayed by an act
She said, this is not mine but of my compulsion
Hence, I go wrong always -
Things are not as I suppose
Things go not as I propose

What has gone wrong with me
Or the people around
I pondered over to find
I move on classic unitary line
Without playing dual roles
Same outside as inside
Same in word and deed
Same in seed and feed
Not smart indeed
Hence, I go wrong always -
Things are not as I suppose
Things go not as I propose

People around are modern
Diplomacy their favorite term
They play duel, triple or quadruple roles
With none knowing what next
They change color like frogs
Bark and shake tail like dogs  
Better managers, better reference terms
Not individuals strong
But institutions and firms
Hence, I go wrong always -
Things are not as I suppose
Things go not as I propose

I loved, she said -
I too love you but I am married
Fail to comprehend her words
If love and marriage are inclusive
Why she loves me
And if exclusive, what is the hesitation
Anyway, I had said -
Keep your marriage intact
And let us love as we like
We happily agreed
With she playing duel role -
As a wife and a beloved
But under covers confidential
With sympathies, I love her intense
And I conclude -
Marriage and love are exclusive
With none else agreeing with me
In open, concurring in mind
Again a play duel
Hence, I go wrong always -
Things are not as I suppose

Things go not as I propose
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