A Cause of Discord in a Budding Relationship

Two persons meeting for the first time

And likelihood of a relationship, they find

Yet, none in decisive about their find

For both being in probing state of their mind

For not to repent later

By jumping into the matrimony

For mismatching and disharmony

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Time passes by

Both coming to know each other better

Yet to differing degrees in the matter

Same way, they inch toward being decisive

And each to say yes or no without being coercive

In the prospective matrimony

Not to have mismatching and disharmony

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At in-between stages

One person may decide favorably

While the other still indecisive amicably

If the other person too says yes

For the sake of being nice or to avoid fuss

Or for any other reason of their own gush

They come to discuss things with more precision

And begin facing problems during incision

This happens very often in such cases

Of whatever be their regions or races

Coming to a stage of parting company

For their mismatching and disharmony

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For a relationship without later separation

Both need be honest in their expression

An expression of being decisive

With actually being indecisive

Can't be said being nice nor honesty

Doesn't deserve forgiving or amnesty

For the two seeking each other's company

Leading to mismatching and disharmony

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In a serious discussion on the relationship

The decisive person rides an emotional ship

While the indecisive one plays clever tricks

To safeguard their interests with falsehood flicks

This may hurt any or both the persons

Bringing them to stage of parting company

For their mismatching and disharmony

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There is no harm in taking time for the decision

Or waiting for coming up of certain situation

But honest expression of this is essential

For the relationship to be prudential

Or they be prepared to part company

For their mismatching and disharmony

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Whom to Love

Love is never for a person

But for beautitudes of the beloved

Appearance attractive, humor in heart,

Softness of voice, command on words,

Emotionally stable, sophistication at work,

Lifestyle simple, color sense in dress,

Artful in nature, kindness in conduct

And most importantly -

Morality in character, behavior honest

With a rider applied - nobody is perfect

Sky is missing in some, others miss the Earth

For any deficiency, compensation is a must

Love being purpose of the both

Both be serious in contributing their mite

Every contribution of the left palm to a clap

Needs equal support of the right

When one gets hurt, other must be curt 

To offer an instant 'sorry', even without fault

To save the love, not to hurt the lover

Revengeful reflection adds to feelings bitter

It's not a weakness but strength of love

Indicates how much they care for saving the love

Are considerate for love for one another

Persons adamant in their conduct

Self-righteous or self-centered

What the other feels or would feel

Remain unbothered

Looking for better options, once love is settled

Are not fit for love

Those without patience and stamina

Better keep away from this arena

It's a field where you forget what you gave

Without expecting, without being cared for

You feel final with what you have

Love is not a business for profit ever higher

And for choices ever better

Love requires transparency with nothing to hide

Nothing a secret, nothing to lie about

Doors open to each other far and wide